Relations.
The disadvantage of not being a particularly social person is that I’m not exactly sure what’s really normal in real life and what’s not.
Because I spend like 92.8% of my waking ours connected to the internet, my view of “society” is a bit warped…like I see in the extremes people project on the internet rather than the subdued reality that people censor themselves with in real space.
When it comes to “relations”, this is especially difficult to analyze because on the internet, a lot of people do the most. Thirst traps on instagram, super public sexual preference talk on twitter, so on and so forth…
But at the same time, I do recognize that relations in of itself is something that is just as human/normal/whatever as eating or sleeping.
For me, I don’t judge what people choose to do with their privates per say…it’s more I’m annoyed when people broadcast certain things just because I feel like people don’t do that just because that’s who they are, they do it for some sort of reaction.
Like for me, Buoncy’s Grammy performance wasn’t offensive, in fact I liked it because she’s a married woman with a child who fully embraces her sexuality..and even parades it. She’s a wife and mom, and is still a huge sex symbol which is right…what’s more SEXy than a mom really? Evidence that she’s gotten it in and may be up for more, lol. Also, from a modern traditional standpoint, she could be seen as a role model as she is the career woman/wife/mom who still is hugely attractive and all that….a bit of a rebel that combats the “successful career woman are not attractive” stigma that we get.
I honestly would not have a problem with my 14 year old (in theory of course) seeing her performance… seeing Bouncy be a sexy boss with her HUSBAND would be the norm for her because my daughter (in theory again) sees her mom have the same dynamic with her dad. The model that you are successful in your own right first, hook up with a dude that’s just as driven, and create an awesome family together is cool by me.
Then as far as po.rn people go….
I have no qualms with the video vixens, po.rn stars, suicide girls…basically ADULT chicks who make money playing off of people’s sex.ual whatvers…I mean it’s a legitimate business.
Dudes will pay for stuff that they COULD get for free, but requires too much work on their part.
It’s kind of easy money.
I don’t think that s.ex is something that should be shameful or anything like that, but for me with my personality and the way I live life, it’s kind of personal. Like the only person that would be privy to anything in that realm when it comes to me is the person I’m being intimate with…and I WOULD actually be offended by someone trying to get that kind of info from me when I barely even know them.
TBH, someone saying I’m “se.xy” makes me feel extremely uncomfortable because I take it literally…like you don’t even know me and you want to put your peen in me?
Gross!
And that’s not a compliment …you could want to do that because you like the way my left index finger looks…
I know biologically, attraction is based on some innate stuff, and there’s something to say about dudes having billions of swimmers and how that may support their indiscriminate tastes, but kind of goes back to, just because you are attracted to me, doesn’t obligate me to think anything about you…
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Rambling now…
But yeah anyway…
Relations.
As for me and my house, the formula is thus :
Raw intelligence quotient – 52%
Sorry it’s just required! It’s not degree related, more a natural kind of intelligence that you’re born with. Like he would be the kid who was “bright” in school. He may or may not have had the grades, but his intelligence was undeniable. Might be an autodidact.
Standard of living quotient – 25%
The money part of this hasn’t been important until recently. Before I didn’t really care, but it actually is kind of important that they have a similar financial values…especially if it becomes something more. Not because of what he could provide for me (I can afford me) but because again there’s a time and place for a 80k car…and that time isn’t now…even if you CAN afford it…and at the same time, you don’t feel any kind of way about a 200 buck date. (That I would occasionally pay for as well).
Character comes into play a lot here too. Not just about money, but about life choices. Are you a hard worker ? Do you follow through on your plans? Do you give up easy? Do you stand by your word? Are you authentic? Do take responsibility for your actions? Do you admit when you’re wrong? Are you a poser? #delayedgratification #splurgeontheimportantstuff #doingmebetterthanyouredoingyou
Aesthetic Qualities -23%
The last three people I was relationally interested in all basically resembled Mr. G. Not because of Mr. G as I’m not really checking for him like that, but they all had the same kind of hair, body type, style.
I was recently told that this type is interpreted by other women as being “corny” or “he’s the homie, but not the man” types.
Sorry I like those types. It’s kind of narcissistic, but I feel like if I were a dude, I’d be that type too, lol.
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But yeah…relations.
Don’t fear it!
Embrace it!
And don’t broadcast it because no one cares…
…except thirsty people.
