Seriously? Seriously…
Reallly?
REEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAALLLLLLLLLYYYYYYYYYYY?
Where do I even begin?!?!
Alright, so……not unknown that a certain younger sister is not a huge fan of her older sister’s choice of life mate.
As already explained, younger sister had given thoughts about the nuptials before they commenced and they were generally noted. There’s no bad blood between the sisters, but younger sister is basically like this re the life mate :
SO apparently there was an argument or heated discussion between older sister and her life mate about life mate’s daughter (no relation) and how he did not want her to be too independent…like older sister’s sisters…because their independence is why they were as old as they were and single.
Oh…my…goooooooooooooood….
What is the younger sister going to do?
Funny thing about that, all three of us have careers that pay us regularly and very well. All three of us have purchased homes in our own names. All three of us don’t have out of wedlock children. All three of us are basically society’s definition of self-sufficient ADULTS who have had lives that follow the optimal path mostly due to hard work and tenacity but also because of being born in favorable situations.
Oh!
And also, none of us ever wrote essays on facebook about the blessings we’ve received that our partners actually paid for and provided for us…which in turn are liked by hundreds of women who think the dude is actually being a good provider.
You sir, cannot say any of that at the age of 43. Like at all. Even the house you live in that was purchased after your marriage is in your wife’s…
Sorry…nope…heaven help me because I SWEAR TA GAWD IF HE COMES FOR ME AT ALL?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
I might just need to go ahead and get a hotel for her baby shower…
That he invited himself to.
And made them cancel or change the the date so his 11 year old could attend too.
Even though he’ll be the only male there.
And she’ll be the only child.
Because it’s a shower.
For adult women…
Baby it’s not about being “too independent”, it’s about having a requirement that the dude doesn’t need a woman to take care of him financially or emotionally so they can focus on building together as a unit not catering to his insecurities…
…but you wouldn’t know about that life.
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Please help me someone…because….