Oh okay…
Saw someone on twitter rewteet “Ladies on my glorious TL, when do you consider it ‘too late’ to have children?”
Some responses were okay…some said menopause, some said 40, or 40+…
But some responses person was getting were like 33 sometimes even younger.
Dude himself said being 50 with a teenage child wasn’t appealing to him. And that his mom had him at 33 “a terrible age”. o_O And even 30 was way too old.
o_O
I asked the person who retweeted how old this dude was.
She said 26.
o_O
My question is this : Are all you people who are saying ages between 30-35 are too old for you to be having kids, and you want kids, are you living your life accordingly?
Not to say you need to be married, but if you want to be married, are you on track to be able to be in a selfless and mature relationship within 4 years? (or really 3 assuming people are turning 27 this year)
Are you going to have your money and savings in order within 3 years?
Are you going to be able to AFFORD a child or shoot even a PREGNANCY within 3 years (Pregnancy isn’t free! Even with insurance!)?
Are you ready to be responsible for the LIVES of 2 people (assuming you’re going to be married first) within 3 years?
3 years goes by in a BREEZE! Especially when you’re in “I’ll do that later/when I grow up” mode.
Good luck with that ya’ll. Meanwhile back on earth…
As long as I can do so, and do so safely, there is no age that’s too old. Having kids is a lifetime job. You’ll be an old parent eventually no matter how long you wait.
My timeline is based on when I get married. Do want to spend some time just being Mrs. [insert last name here] and being able to jet off whenever or relate on the counter with my husband without fear of being caught. Ultimate goal for my life though IS to have kids with prime sperms and supporting male character infusions so mini-us can help influence some of their ratchet peers not to be ratchets.
Time for Mini–us comes 3-5 years after we legally become us , unless the powers that be have other plans…
I could easily make it to 35 before someone pops out…even later maybe depending how life goes.
Just saying, if we’re blessed to be able to do so, and we have the resources to support, we might have a small colony.
*marks this for when one is coming down the canal and I’m like “I’m never having sex again!”