Okay Marilyn…
This is one of my least favorite quotes:
“I’m selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best.”
― Marilyn Monroe
I often see people quoting this last part and I’m like “um…so you know that’s sentiment isn’t really something to be proud of, right?”
She’s saying she admittedly treats you wrong…but if you can’t handle it when she treats you wrong, then you don’t deserve to be treated better?
Does. not. compute.
A lot of times, when I see people misquoting this, they actually are a lot like Marilyn. They’ve been through things…and haven’t coped well with what they’ve been through, and take their pain out on others…but still.
Read that again people. Do you really want to celebrate that kind of sentiment?
That people shouldn’t be treated well unless they can handle you putting them through the ringer?
Out of context, it MIGHT have more of a “if you don’t have my back while i’m making my way to the top, you don’t deserve me once I make it” ring to it, but I’ve hardly ever seen it used that way according to the people who quote this…
Am I missing something?